What would you suggest on beginning anal penetration ( Not sex, more for better orgasms during masturbation).
I would suggest starting slow and small. Insert one finger and see how that feels. Use generous amounts of lube and take the time to get used to the sensation. As you become used to the feeling, you can slowly add more fingers as you feel comfortable.
I cannot stress enough how important it is to go slow; if you are too rough you can seriously hurt yourself. I personally would stay away from inserting objects into your ass unless they were specifically designed for that sort of things (dildos, anal beads, etc.). You don’t want anything sharp in there, and you don’t want anything that could break off or get lost unless you enjoy extremely awkward visits to the doctor.
The nice thing about you wanting to explore this during masturbation is that it means you only have to worry about yourself; should you ever want to use anal play during sex you’ll have a much better idea of what you like.
Personally, I would like to. My feeling is that if my boyfriend and I are going to make the commitment to be with one another for the rest of our lives, I’d like that commitment to be legally recognized. But I’m in no rush to do so. I’m just glad to know that by living in NY, we have the option, and I hope that someday very soon every gay couple in the country will have that option no matter what state they call home.
hi i am an american white guy. I just wonder what is the average size of the adult penis for white guys. i checked the website showed it as 5.5-6 inch, but some sources said it as 7-8 inchs. From your experience, what is the average size in america?
In my experience, the first number you quoted seems more accurate. I know for a fact that my dick is 6.5 inches, and while I don’t want to brag, I often get compliments on it’s size. But the real reason I bring that up is because I’ve met my fair share of guys who claim to be 7 or 8 inches that are the same size as me, so I know they’ve fudged the numbers a bit.
The truth of the matter is, most guys exaggerate the size of their penis by an inch or two. If you’re anywhere near 6 inches, you can rest assured that you are average no matter what the internet tells you. Also, there isn’t a whole lot you can do to alter the size of your penis, so it’s best to just make peace with what you’ve got. In any relationship worth having, it won’t matter anyway.
Why are you in an open relationship if you are committed? How does that work?
By “open relationship,” I mean that we are allowed to have casual sex with other people. It does not mean that we can date other people. It is a way to keep our sex lives interesting and also address the fact that one of us (me) is more interested in sex than the other. And for the record, it was my boyfriend’s suggestion to open up the relationship.
It works by having very clear rules about what is and isn’t allowed, and always being open and honest with one another. Far too many couples, gay and straight, do not discuss things openly with one another. They make assumptions about what the other person wants/expects, and it tends to create a lot of problems.
Although the be perfectly honest, it really isn’t any of your business. My boyfriend and I are both happy, love one another, and can’t imagine our lives without the other.